"I'm going to leave you now. It's time for me to go. Everything is ready," she told two visiting friends, the words relayed to Ms. Kipping by Ms. Duckworth's daughter. "Be happy with each other. You have each other. Goodbye, I'm going now." That inner peace contrasts with the grief of those close to her. Some were too distraught to speak publicly. Others praised her for remaining true to her principles.
"Her life shows not only it can be done, but that it has been done," said friend Ursula Franklin, 87, senior fellow at the University of Toronto's Massey College. "I would like her to be remembered as somebody who demonstrated that it's possible to change one's society, to be profoundly critical and still remain a respected member of that society."
Ms. Duckworth, a practising Quaker and founding member of protest group The Raging Grannies, was born in Quebec and moved to Nova Scotia in 1947. She and her late husband, Jack, raised three children in the province while dedicating themselves to the cause of social justice. A founding member of the provincial branch of Voice of Women, Ms. Duckworth served as national president for four years. She helped establish the anti-poverty Canadian Council for International Co-operation, and was one of the first women in Nova Scotia to run for provincial office. She was always strongly opposed to war, a stand that went back more than half a century, and did not recognize popular distinctions between "good" and "bad" conflicts.
She was able to hold onto hope of a better future even as fighting continued around the world, Ms. Franklin said, who noted that social attitudes have slowly changed for the better. Citing the less authoritarian ways people relate in the family, the workplace and at school, Ms. Franklin said the challenge is to extend these new approaches to the international sphere. But that task will soon be left to the next generation.
"When any person passes, it's the end of an era," said Bruce Kidd, a close Duckworth family friend and the dean of physical education and health at the University of Toronto. He went on to quote an Ethiopian saying he'd heard from a colleague, noting that the effects of some deaths are particularly profound. "When an elder dies, a great library and archive burns to the ground."
This was largely reprinted from an article by Oliver Moore in a recent issue of the Globe and Mail, and it says, better than I ever could, what an incandescent spirit and a courageous warrior this gentle woman has always been - we have been blessed in knowing her and having her light shining in our lives.
